While every woman is unique, they have more common similarities than most people know of. There is almost a near universal unanimity among women in their desire for confident men.
But confidence is a highly misunderstood topic among men. Most have a shallow view that straddles between social clichés like “Be yourself!”, “Don’t be afraid to be who you are!” etc. But today’s women have a different view of confidence and it is important to know what it is and how to acquire it.
Most people generalize that women like men with money. But this is an overly simplified statement that hides the complex thought process that culminates in that action. A woman clearly understands that having money indicates a near certainty that the man is confident. Unless it’s inherited and undeserved, most wealthy men are wealthy because they are hardworking people who toiled relentlessly to reach that position due to their ability to perform in tough situations. This is an extremely desirous trait in any man according to women.
Women are attracted to men with leadership qualities because it mostly indicates that he can be trusted for his opinions and ideas. This is the reason confident men, even if not wealthy, can exude this quality to attract women.
Body language is the single most important aspect in displaying confidence and must be carefully cultivated to send the desired message to the people around you. It is also an honest indicator for women, as unlike looks and words, body language can’t be easily faked. It is after all a manifestation of your subconscious thoughts and emotions.
But since emotions control body language, can you control your emotions to gently change your body language? And as it turns out, it is possible! Emotions are controlled by your beliefs and if you are confident in your mind, you can take control of your thoughts which will ultimately show up in your body language. If you believe you are worth the time spent with you, others will too.
Beliefs are the cornerstones of positive thoughts – everything you do from smiling to posture will reflect it without your realization. But most women don’t do thing instinctively and wait to assess you in real situations and watch your body language react to it.
A powerful belief is the magic key that unlocks the door to beautiful women. And a sincere determined effort has to be made to acquire it. Women are highly perceptive of thoughts and your body language will easily betray your emotions if you are not careful. That’s why it is extremely important that you believe in the positive thoughts without any underlying doubts. And the best time to start filling your mind with positive thoughts and intentions is everyday!
